3 Tips for Online Dating

It’s official: DATING IS BACK! 

Last week on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, special guest Dr. Sanjay Gupta announced it for all to hear: Dating is BACK. 

And it’s true, there are more people dating now (specifically online dating) than ever before. 

And whatever your online experience has been up until now, doesn’t dictate the possibility of you meeting your match via an online platform. 

Now, I know what a PIA online dating platforms and apps can be - trust me, I’m in my clients profiles each week and know first hand what you deal with babe! 

However, there are some simple guidelines you can use to diffuse the emotional charge that arises when looking for love online. 

Here’s three of my favorites, from both my tactical and energetic pockets! 

And if you are interested in hearing more about using your online dating platforms to your highest advantage, reply to this email; let me know where you are challenged in your love life and I’ll be happy to answer your question! 

1️⃣ Have at least one, browser based, long text format profile 

Especially recommended for mature women looking for lasting love, ensure that you have at least ONE online dating profile on a browser-based platform where you can enter long format text such as an “about me” or “summary” statement. 

This allows you to curate your message specifically tailored to your unique needs, desires and offerings in relationship. 

2️⃣ Be intentional with your platform engagement / messaging 

It’s too easy to fill void time with the endless scroll of dating apps. Who hasn’t whipped out Tinder while waiting for a table or a spot at the bar? The problem with this behavior is that it doesn’t create the ripe environment for conscious connection. 

When you are able to engage with your online platforms mindfully and intentionally, not only do you signal the importance of this process to the Universe, you are also more equipped to communicate from your highest self and create connection when you come at it with this presence. 

3️⃣ Shift into Connecting Energy 

Look, I’m not going to sugar coat it and tell you the online experience is all cake and rainbows. However, I see far too many women let their eye roll energy take them down in their dating practice. 

You’ve heard the saying, “Energy flows where our attention goes”... The opportunity here is to train your attention to what you WANT, versus being pulled into the undertow of emotional reaction to what you don’t want. 

A simple, “Thank you for making it so easy” before you block and delete keeps you connected with your VISION and the higher power pulling you towards it. 

Ok love! 

Now I want to hear from you!

Which of these three hit home? 

Got another question? Shoot an email to hello@bexburtoncoaching.com and your question will be answered!

Loving you fiercely,
Xoxo Bex