JK! Love Coaching and I are BACK! 👯♀️
/Hey Gorgeous!
My husband Nick and I recently celebrated 9 years of love together.
9 Years!
If you’d have told me ten years ago that in 2020 I’d be happily enjoying a 9 year, romantic relationship, I would have laughed in your face. For real.
I never in my life dreamed that I could sustain a long-term relationship beyond 2.5 years - my longest running relationship for over a decade.
So how did I go from the 2.5 year fizzle to the 9 year fire?
It hasn’t been easy. But it’s been the most incredible journey of discovery I’ve been on.
And if I’m completely honest, there were times Nick and I weren’t sure if we were going to “make it”!
Some of the roughest years were the early days of my coaching business. Which is pretty inconvenient for a LOVE COACH!!
And after a stretch of this inner (and outer) conflict, I burnt out, fell into a deep depression where I no longer recognized myself, and “quit” love coaching.
I was tired of feeling like a fraud, an impostor. Making promises you "attract the ONE" and touting the blessings of a loving, committed partnership, while struggling in my own relationship.
My healing journey involved a sabbatical from my business, and working with my own coach to recover the confident, strong, fiercely independent Bex I felt I had lost, while integrating the wise, compassionate, Divine Feminine Woman emerging.
This return-to-wholeness inspired my return to coaching, and became the foundation for Core Joy Living: the success path I excitedly launched in February, to support high-performing women reduce stress, and avoid burnout and depression. I was back in business!
Queue Plot Twist!
In it’s infinitely amazing and wondrous way, the Universe opened up for me this Spring, blessing me with a job as an assistant coach for a colleague’s … Love Coaching company. 😂
All of a sudden, this chapter I thought I had closed, reopened for me; and as I served the women in this community, I began to realize that something BIG had happened since I “quit”.
💖 In the time I had stepped away from Love Coaching, Nick and I experienced a major breakthrough, seemingly in one precise moment, that in actuality, was the culmination of years of committed, intentional self- and co-discovery.
💖 I no longer felt like an impostor, or a fraud. I felt confident in every way I was showing up for these women.
💖 I recognized just how much I had grown from the depressed, burnt out woman I was, who was simply trying SO HARD, doing “the work” to sustain an LTR.
💖 I was having FUN, and reminded how much I enjoy, and how GOOD I am at, supporting women's hearts.
The more I study love and grow in my own relationship, the more I realize that EVERYTHING is about LOVE and Relationships - even our personal JOY is a reflection of our own love for ourselves.
Without our personal JOY, no romantic relationship is possible - there is no 'magical coming together', and there certainly is no longevity when we lose our Joy.
The whisper I received from the Universe over 6 years ago to study and help others LOVE wholeheartedly still rings true for me, and I want to help YOU now more than ever.
Whether you are single or partnered, if you are a fiercely independent woman who struggles to attract or keep lasting relationships, I am so eager to support you!
Shoot me a message and tell me about what you want; let’s find a time to chat. Better yet, CLICK HERE and apply for a 1:1 Step-By-Step Core Joy Plan with me today!
I love you!
Xo bex